It’s no secret that women have been ever-present in horror flicks on the silver screen, seen getting hacked to bits by off-the-rails male killers and shot in sexual-driven sequences always angled from the male gaze. But it feels as though they’ve been somewhat missing on the other side, shadowed over by male filmmakers whose clout and influence takes up another seat at the dinner table.
“One of the challenges with this was obviously highlighting the gender reversal but in a way that it was subtle and “normalized” without making it a big deal but also showing that it is a big deal,” said Day. “We also wanted this to not just be about the boy dressed as a girl, but also that the daughter dresses up as Batman and not Batgirl. For some reason girls dressing up as boys is more “normalized” and “accepted” whereas it’s not for a little boy.”
At some point, your kids will start to notice that most of the options for women are ridiculously revealing. More than simply explaining that these disguises are for grown-ups, you can take the opportunity to help kids understand the sexy-costume phenomenon, how it sells women short, and how they can reject it and replace it with positive role models who communicate strength, intelligence — or anything else they want to be for Halloween (or in life).
As our girls get older, let’s talk with them about the kinds of costumes that are featured for girls. This year, my daughter is going to be a “Devil.” We looked at pictures of girl devils with really short tight skirts and pictures of boy devils wearing long pants. We talked about how that felt weird and she agreed she’d be fine wearing pants as long as she had a really cool red cape, tail, horns and pitchfork.